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I feel ever so used as my wife has done this before.

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Question - (1 December 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 December 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, *ohn-lee w writes:

Well, it's been two months now since i broke up with my wife of four years. At first, my wife and i decided to give ourselves a break from one another yet still being husband and wife. I soon found out that my wife was starting to go out with friend. And have our two children looked after over night at her mothers home. I confonted my wife regarding these issues and she bacame very matter of fact about the whole thing........ To cut a long story short.... My wife had been seeing another guy while still with me.

He even came to my new place to drop of my things....

I feel ever so used as my wife has done this before

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008):

Your wife has betrayed you, and you say she has done it before. I know marriage is for better or worse, but some things are unforgivable. You gave her a second chance and she stabbed you in the back by seeing someone else while still with you. Who knows, she may try to come back if things don't work out, but it sounds to me like she doesn't love you enough to make this work. And to have her new guy come to your house to drop your things off? That's pretty low, she could have made other arrangements. We all deserve someone who loves us with all their heart and who wouldn't dream of doing something like this. Look around, you will find that person eventually. Good luck!!

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