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writes:So I had been dating my boyfriend for a month. I knew that one of my old coworkers had liked him for a while so I asked him what was going on with that and he told me they chatted for a while but it never went anywhere so we started hanging out and after two weeks we become official. He would always make "jokes" about how hot other women were, and which girl I'd prefer he'd sleep with. When I told him that I thought it was rude he'd just tell me that UI was being too sensitive and thin skinned. One day I was joking around with him that he missed my old co workers and he admitted that he kissed one, and then another and then on and on. And the girl that I specifically asked him about he admitted to sleeping with her. I was furious so I left but we later made up and promise to work things out. Then the next day he called and told me that he had chlamidya. I went and got tested and sure enough he's given it to me too. I took the antibiotics and it's gone now. He promised things would get better but he was treating me like shit the following days after. I was never anything but good to him. I went above and beyond to make him happy. I'm a pretty, fit, smart, funny, sweet girl. I've never done him wrong in any way. I ended it with him today so why do I feel like this? I know I deserve way better.
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reader, justamy  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 after reading your question its clear to see that you had feelings for this boy/man, i think you hurting because although he did all theses things you still have feelings for him....and must of had some good times. the best thing to do is just give it time if you have facebook myspace or enything like that its best to remove him as a friend....you will move on just remember the good times you had with him and try not to have contact with him unless you are sure that you are over him as i could lead to you feeling more hurt xx. try to spend time with you friends and have a good time, you will soon be back to your oldself x.
hope this helps
justamy x
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