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writes:Hey, I am reallyreally worried. Because me and my boyfriend separated up about 3 months ago, but recently got back together. Last night i dreamt about him, but in the dream i didn't love him and was worried about how to end things. Now i feel so guilty about dreaming this. I do love him, but what does this dream mean? Is it telling me something or am i just looking too much into this? Please help, thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 July 2010): I don't think it is anything to worry about, and I don't think the dream was trying to tell you something. I know it must have been upsetting to dream you didn't love him, but you can't control what you dream about, so there is nothing to feel guilty about! You said you had separated and are now back together. It could be that your emotions are still a bit confused and unsure after what has happened, and you are sort of "working through it" in your dreams. That is normal.
But maybe you could use the dream to help you. Like, how are things now between you and your boyfriend? Are things going well? Are there any problems? Are you happy? Unhappy? Is there anything troubling you? The reasons you broke up before, have those issues been resolved?
If there are any problems or things troubling you, you could use the dream to spur you on to make some changes. So you could talk to your boyfriend, or do things to make yourself feel good, or really be honest with yourself about how you feel in the relationship. For that, the dream could have a positive effect. But if there are no problems, you are happy, and you really cannot make any sense of the dream or think of any reason you would have it, then I would just try and accept it as a strange dream and not worry about it too much. Good luck. x
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reader, Cookiebaby +, writes (30 July 2010):
Cookiebaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you, that really helps. I guess i am looking too much into it.
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