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36-40,
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writes:I have been dating a man for almost 2 years. We have been engaged now for 6 months and wedding is 3 months away. Just a couple of weeks ago I started getting feelings about the wedding and about another man. I can't get this other guy out of my head. Now I don't know if my fionce is the right person for me after getting to know this other guy. But I don't want to mess up and make a mistake by leaving my fionce. But I also don't know if I will be happy with my fionce. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): Dear Poster
Invest a little in your future and go for counseling; spend some time and money on getting somebody professional to help you to work through all your feelings and confusions.
Yes it could be pre-wedding nerves, but it could also be that you are not ready to make that commitment yet; it could also be that it is not the right partner for you; there are lots of things to take in consideration and it is almost impossible to give you the correct guidance and answer here; I honestly suggest you do a good stock take; with somebody professional to help you and guide you it will be so much easier and so much more effective.
Best wishes; lots of smiles; keep us posted.
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