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writes:hi,I'm 14 years old and I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months and i love him so much; however, we have were going out for 6 months then broke up.In 1 month I'm having a halloween party for my 15 th birthday. I'm playing a game called 7 minutes in heaven and I will go in a room with him for 7 minutes and we can do wot we want.The other day when we were at the beach he asked me what I will do with him in 7 minutes in heaven. I don't want him to think I'm a slut, but I don't want him to think I'm fridged. What do you think i should do???thanks xxx
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reader, L.O.S.E.R.  +, writes (10 October 2007):
 How old is HE is an important fact you forgot to mention.Anyway,I definitely don't think he could possibly have a single thought about you being fridged if you don't have sex with him.It's a thing of YOUR choice and he must realize that no meter how old he is.If you "don't give" him it's cause you don't WANT to.And sex (to what I most honestly made an impression you're too young) is a thing of your choice and not thing you do to make person think better of you.
All I wrote above made a point on what I'm thinking and yes,question seems so immature to me but it's not a bad thing and I don't mean anything bad about you by thinking that.
Would like to respect the fact that you posted a question on the site I joined to reply on them tho so here's my advice: kiss and make out with him or whatever,I dunno the expresions for that on english but you get it - be a good 15 year old girl and DON'T do anything more than usuall so he won't have any reason to think and you to feel (the MOST important part) as if you did something inapropriate to YOUR morals (you called it a "slut" but I think it's a very shalow and ugly word to be used as a description to any person so wouldn't even hipotheticly want to use it related to you).Hope you'll have a happy birthday and a great party:)xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): mabey you need to talk to him about it or mabey get one of his freinds to ask him wot he thinks of you and what he wants you to do with him, however you should never do anything that is gunna make you feel uncomfortable
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2007): Hi, im 14 aswell, and i think it is easy what you should do. Im not saying its wrong to have sex at your age, even though i wouldnt, but i would def not say that it is being friged only kissing him! If I were you, I would leave him wanting mre...and if he thinks uare fridged for this then he is not the right bloke to be with. I hope this helpedxxx
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