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30-35,
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writes:Help, I just got out of a 2 year relationship because my ex didn't know what he wants. I agreed to the break up because even though I let him go, he took advantge of it. I know he wouldn't cheat on me, but after 1 week that we were apart, he called and was crying telling me he missed me and loves me and wants to be with me, then the friday, we watched a movie and then dropped me off at home. He then was like I gotta wake up tmr so I gotta go, then I found out the next day he went clubbing. I don't care anymore, but the day I found out, I saw him flirt with other girls. I'm not upset that he doesn't think on getting back with me; its not that I want to, it's just I don't understand why he's an asshole.. People change.. I loved him when I met him, and the 1.4 years I've been with him.. Then he pulls a stupid move and takes a pic of him shirtless when he fully talks shit about ppl who do that. And then, he wants to give away rabbits that he baught for me...what the hell. Is there a definition for a person like this? I've never done anything for it to be like this.. I catered to him, went out with MY friends.. Everything. Are there any good quotes out there? PLEASE LEt ME KNOW. He's 2 years older than me;he's turning 21.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2011): You said it yourself, he doesn't know what he wants. And who really does at 21? You both just need to live your seperate lives, grow up and if it is meant to be when you are both mature and have learned who you are, you may meet again. Don't speand any more of your time tring to figure him out, instead focus on yourself and everything you can achieve. Go out and have a good time because this is the time of your life to do it! :)
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