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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been arguing a lot lately and when we argue we both get really angry. I'm so confused on why we argue so much. Am I fighting with him cuz I don't love him or cuz I don't want to be with him? We have been dating for a year and 5 months. I know I love him but I'm confused on why we argue so much. Somebody please help me! Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 April 2008):
It might be a rough patch.. or it might be a sign it's over.
Sit down and think about if you really want a future with him. Don't think about how it used to be. Think about now.
Talk to him and ask him how he feels.
Perhaps you should go on a break? Give it 2 weeks with no contact and at the end of that you should either have missed eachother so much that it will be wonderful again, or you'll both know deep down that it's been far nicer to be apart without all the stress and fighting.
Good Luck!! xx
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