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I don't trust men because of what I've seen!

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Question - (8 November 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have grown up with an older brother who's very handsome and charismatic. He definately has a handle in the ladies so to speak. He's never truly been faithful to any girl. I've witnessed this for many years and I find that sometimes I don't trust men because of what I've seen. There was one particular girl that he was talking to on and off that I thought was so chill. I really thought my brother liked her. I don't know what happened but he just stopped calling her and now he's seeing this really annoying girl. I noticed that he still keeps in contact with the other chick. I find that I can't trust men because of all that I've seen between him and his friends. He always gives me great advice but sometimes I dont understand him. Is it possible that being around his relationships makes me paranoid about being cheated on in mine? Why does he keep talking to the other girl while having a gf? Are all men like this when their gf is not around?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2011):

If you brother was a criminal, it would not mean that most guys are criminals.

If your brother hung out with a whole crowd of other criminals like him, it would still not mean most men are criminals.

If you had chosen a lot of criminals to date in the past (especially with your brother & friends as examples and causing you to meet a lot of criminals through them), it would still not mean that most men are criminals.

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