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writes: I have been Hurt in the past and ever since that its hard for me to trust any guy. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years, and we have been friends before dating. I always feel like if i leave him alone or give him his own space, it will give him the oppertunity to cheat on me. He has cheated before awhile back but not with me. I also feel like he is still talking to his ex. In other words i dont trust him, but i do love him, and i just dont want everything to go down the drain what should I do. Please can you help
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2006): I'm not sure what you are basing this relationship on.
It's obvious to me that it is definately not trust, which in my opinion is the most important basis of any relationship. If you don't have trust for him then what is there really left?
If you stay with him I'm assumming in a short amount of time everything will go down the drain anyway. Smothering him is not the answer either, and in due time he is not going to be able to tolerate that. If you know he has the potential of screwing around and highly suspect he is with his ex..then you should exit the relationship with your head held high knowing that you deserve so much more than this! Do it soon while you still have your dignity intact!
Good Luck hun!
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reader, Celeste  +, writes (12 January 2006):
 What you have to do is sort this out in your head. These past issues will continue to affect you throughout your entire life and relationships if you don't nip them in the bud NOW. Trusting anyone is hard, especially when you've been hurt before, but what you have to ask yourself is this: 'Do I love him enough to put my heart on the line?'. Good luck.
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