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writes:Ok, I am going to be completely honest here. I was dating this girl for about 5 months but have known her for almost 8 years and she is now 11 weeks pregnant and we are no longer together. Before we broke up, she moved to west virginia to help out with her mom, but her and her mom got into a fight and her mom kicked her out so she moved in with her sister. i asked her to come back to florida and she said that she would rather raise this child up there together and she wanted me to move out there with her. Well we have been fighting a lot lately and now we are broken up. We both have done and said nasty things to eachother, and we haven't spoken in over a week. All I want is to be a father to my child and raise and love my child, and now I am scared she won't let me because she already has 5 kids with 3 different guys and she doesn't even take care of any of those!! Three are adopted and the other two her baby daddy has the other two. I am so scared and don't know what to do??? Please help me
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 June 2010):
You need a lawyer, and you need to prove the child is yours. That's what you need to do here. Only a lawyer will be able to tell you what rights you have and what you can do.
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reader, _mae  +, writes (30 June 2010):
I think you should let her know exactly how you feel. Try to tell her in a way that won't hurt her, but get the point across in a persuasive way. Tell her that you don't want your baby growing up not having or knowing who his/her father is and that you love both her and the baby. You have as much right as she does to care for your baby.
Good luck :)
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