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writes: Right, im 14 years old. I really liked this girl at school and we ended up telling each other that we really like one another. Since it was the holidays (Break from school) i saw her quite a lot. When we got back to school she started to go off me a bit. We never became boyfriend and girlfriend since she didn't want a boyfriend. I completely understood her and didn't mind. I could wait as long as she needed until she was happy, i even told her this.Though last friday she told me she didn't fancy me anymore. I think my heart broke when she told me that. I asked her why and she said its none of your business.Im just CURIOUS on why she doesn't anymore. Not gonna complain about it, im just wondering. If you understand me, since it is her choice.She told me that she didn't want a boyfriend right? My frienda asked her..."Why wont you go out with Ali?" (Ali = Me). She said shes just not interested in me anymore.I dont understand her, how can i get her to like me again? I still have feelings for her but i still dont think she respects them.I cant think of what i did wrong, i saw her a lot, extremely friendly, bought her things, payed for her. ( I bought her a heart necklace and an easter egg =) )Can someone help please?Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2006): "I could wait as long as she needed until she was happy, i even told her this." - Ok, firstly, that could be considered as sweet, but in the reality its very clingy. Don't make yourself so available to her. Secondly, she says why she doensnt like you anymore is none of your business. Well, actually, it is your business. That being said however, she sounds like she doesnt want to go out with you, hard to hear I know, but if she had felt the same way as you she would have leapt at the chance of going out with you. The most important thing is not to hang around waiting for something that will never happen. Get over it and move on, as there are plenty of girls who will want to go out with you.
Good luck.
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