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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My bf and i have been together for 2 years. We love each other a lot, he makes sure to tell me everyday. we've had our ups and downs and just a few months ago my bf went from having it all (nice car, good job, nice home) to being left with nothing (no car, no job, legal issues, living in a room). i'm still here and trying my best to help him. i'm sure eventually he will start to better himself, but takes time. anyways, i'm also trying to get my feet on the ground. i'm not in a bad situation like he is, but i need to do things for myself as well. i have to finish school and work crazy hours. i still make time to help him. so he's staying at his friend rays house and my bf has told me many times how jealous he is of ray. he means jealous of his happiness. he said ray has a beautiful wife, 3 great kids, a nice place to live. and i got upset over it. he's with me and he's jealous of his friends happiness. he says he wants what ray has. and just because he says that doesnt mean i should be offended by it, but i am! it hurts my feelings because right now we are in no position to have kids and he doesn't even want me to spend the night with him how am i supposed to live with him? i dont think he see's me as long term regardless of what he says. do you think i had a reason to be upset or did i over react? like i said before ... i don't question his love for me, i question his happiness and satisfaction in this relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2009): i dont think you over reacted. personaly i think you're damn right to feel like that! but if it is upsetting you as much as you say then you should talk to him about it. find out why he thinks like this, and tell hijm how he is making you feel.
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