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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been with my fella 3 years and he used to masterbate every night before we lived together...i make all the moves towards sex, dress up, touch him up, let him know how sexy i find him.... but only get a response when he has drink and drugs.... i know ive gained a little weight recently but im still only a size 10, im begining to think he just doesnt fancy me even though i believe him when he says he loves...what has gone wrong???
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (8 March 2007):
 I feel he is stuck in a rut. You feel you are putting on a bit of weight and you are only a size 10. Thats a great size to be. Its you who is putting in all the effort and getting nothing in return. We all need to feel loved and made special. Only getting a response when he has dring/drugs will do nothing for your self esteem. Maybe he just couldnt be bothered. You need to talk to him when he is sober and tell him how your feeling. He probably does love you but is this love that you would have for a brother or sister? Get things out in the open and tell him you dont feel he fancies you any more? Often when you live with someone for along time things start to go stale.
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