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writes: I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now i'm only just 20 and we only see each other 2 or 3 times a week when we are together he's very attentive we always have good sex and he does so much for me, like he bought me a laptop when i was moving to spain and filled it with loads of secret messages to surprise me but i don't think he contacts eough when we're not together. he's so lazy I feel like he never wants to do something? am i just being over sensitive about all of this, do you think he relaly cares about me or do you just think he wants someone to go to when he wants a girlfriend? Reply to this Question |
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (19 October 2006):
 no i am in the same situation and i thought the same way as you too. i explained to my feller how i felt and he explained the reason why he doesnt contact me so much when we arnt together is because it wouldnt make things so good when we are together, he said if he rang me all the time well get board of talking to each other, and theres no point when we see each other that way we have loads to talk about. he rings me 2 times a day when we dont see each other. but if you think about it if he did ring you constantely it would get boaring, and youll have less to say to each other when you see each other.
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