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writes: Hi, I'm 15 and I go to an all same sex school - so I have trouble talking to girls anyway. The only girls that are round my way are 13/12. And I have never ever had a girlfriend, and I find it hard to mix with people. How can I get a girlfriend? How do I ever ask someone out? Will I be alone all my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2005): look ask yourself what is more important to you a girl or good qualifications and a good career, i know i found this out im 15 aswell and i used to go to an all girls school hense why ive never had a boyfriend i havent had chance but out of school and in the holidays if you really want a girl that bad then try it then, i can promise you that if you want something that much you will get it if your determined stick with it!!
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reader, pops +, writes (2 October 2005):
YOu are the age when you need to spend the time learning courage, and not worry about being alone. Learn skills that will allow you to help people. If you are a swimmer, learn to be a life guard. Learn first aid, and CPR. Learn how to use a fire extinguisher. Take martial arts classes and learn how to protect yourself. Somewhere along the way it will dawn on you that you have changed from a confused and frightened boy, to a young man who has self confidence, and asking a girl to go out will be the easiest thing in the world to do. There are much harder things to do. Those girls you are afraid to ask out are just as nervous and afraid of being asked out, or asking a boy out. Tne worst thing that can happen is that she says, " No. " Are you trying to tell me no one has ever said " NO." to you before in your entire life? Come on. Grow up, and learn something about having courage. Then, and only then, bother to ask a girl out on a date. YOu are a little young to begin dating as it is. The added time you take to learn to have courage will let your grow emotionally. IN the meanwhile, talk to girls just like you would want to be talked to, or the same way you talk to guys.
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