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writes:i dislike pda's. they're so cringey, it's like everybody looking in on your private life. behind closed doors it's a different story. i've been with my girlfriend for almost a year, but i've liked her for years. she acts like she's okay with me not being comfortable with pda's, but i've heard from a lot of her friends that she's a hopeless romantic at heart, and i just want to treat her as good as she deserves. i don't know what to do though. i don't really want to be over the top, but if that's what she'd like, i guess i'd do it. any tips on what i could do to surprise her, maybe? or what i could put into long-term practice? i don't want to do one romantic thing for her and that's it. thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (23 March 2011):
 Do little things. Hold her hand when you're walking together. Give her a hug and a small kiss when you first meet. I don't like PDA's either, but small gestures are appreciated and can be very sweet if you do them.The other thing you should do is try to come up with something that's your "secret PDA." Tell her that when you do this action, you're thinking about giving her a huge kiss. It will be something sweet that the two of you share. Your own little secret message.
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