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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Well in the past four years me and this guy have liked each other only in the last year 09 he finally gave me his number. We talked everyday he told me he loved me and i fell for it. He then got me to send pictures and the following week stopped talking to me. This year 10-11 we rode the same bus so he would talk to me, i couldn't stop from falling hard. He gave me his number and we would text like before. But he acts like he doesn't remember the year before. Finally we got into a game of truth. We don't lie to each other. He said he liked me still. And i was happy i thought he'd ask me out. Since we sat next to each other on the bus. But he didn't so i asked why he hadn't. He said 'because my family doesn't like blacks' i thought well so? Its their problem not his. But he got upset. Few days later he got me to send him more pictures but he kept talking to me, then i got mad at him for always hanging out with Other girls but not me. He said he loved me, i asked if he meant it. I haven't heard from him. Why?
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reader, JDinCali +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Sounds like he has co-dependency issues; having a hard time standing up for himself and others he cares for. You deserve a guy that is strong, knows what he wants and will protect you when you need it, never denying his love for you.
When a guy loves you he won't mentally tax you or emotionally burden you, he'll love you the way you need to be loved. You deserve better.
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