I don't know what to do with my relationship

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A few years ago, i met this guy and we became really good friends and after a while we started to date. we broke up, but still kept in touch and i fell in love with him. we had a on and off thing for around a year. well a year ago, he found another girl and he left me for her, completly cut me from his life and he recently came back. we talked through things, and we have started going out again- but lately, i feel as if i dont like him as much as i did. I still love him, but i feel as if i need more out of a relationship. when we were talking he would text me and call me all the time, we would talk for hours. he would make sure he saw me everyday and when we started to date again, all that stopped. now im lucky if he even calls, and when he does call im lucky if i can get him to stay on the phone for more than five minutes. part of me is okay with this but after a while it starts to bug me until he calls, and it starts the whole thing over again. I love him, i do its just i feel as if he doesnt care, or he does care its just not enough for me. I am a virgin, and it is something that i hold close to myself and he doesnt push me but sometimes he will say things that make me feel bad for not wanting to have sex with him. I dont know if its just me, if i am just being crazy for feeling just as bad and hurt as i did when he left, even though im with him, or if i have my expectations too high and im just being irrational. I just dont know what to do with my relationship.

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