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writes:Hi again! So the last time I was on here my question was about an ex and now I'm sad to say that I have a new ex. We had been dating for a year and 3 months and now we've broken up. The past 3 months have been on and off bickering about silly things and I kept telling myself we were going through a rough patch. Well tonight we finally talked and I asked if he wanted to break up and he said yes. We were very civil and understanding of the other person. It came down to us loving each other, but realizing that we were together because we just didn't want to be alone. I feel though in my heart of hearts that this isn't the end, even though it feels so final. I still feel like if he said he wanted to be together again, we would be. I just don't know what to do or feel anymore. There's just a bunch of tears and sadness. I don't want anyone to think he was a horrible boyfriend because he wasn't. Never cheated or treated me badly at all. I just need help or guidance or something from a third party. Reply to this Question
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reader, kurios28  +, writes (30 July 2011):
me and man have been through the same thing. Maybe what he wants and what you need too is that you can't have-- being afraid to be alone-- keeping you together, there has to be other reasons why you guys clicked or why you loved each other it isn't as complicated as you think to think of reasons to love one another...small things are seen as much as the big things we show each other that we love them. Feeling that heavyness and maybe despair because you are apart...come on there must have been something other than lonliness keeping you together...Did you make each other happy?? yes love can be complicated but it is simple down to the fact of yes you love one another.........
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