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writes:I'm not sure if I like my boyfriend I have been with him for almost 3 months and we still haven't gone out on a date.He doesn't tell me that I'm pretty or anything.He doesn't act like a boyfriend should. I'm not going to lie I have hung out with other guys and yes I have kissed other guys.I wuz hanging out with a guy for a while and he would always tell me that I wuz beautiful and it made me feel special!..I'm not sure what to do.I have told my boyfriend to change and he said that he was but he is still the same.what should i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, BeSimplyTrue +, writes (27 August 2010):
 Why are you with this guy at all? It doesn't sound like you're having a very enjoyable dating relationship with him and three months into it you're already asking him to change. That's NOT a good sign, if you are feeling the need to ask him to change (take it from someone who's been there). If you've already been kissing other guys, it sounds like you don't have much loyalty to this boyfriend, either. It sounds like all signs point to breakup being your best solution here.
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reader, DearMe  +, writes (27 August 2010):
Leave him, no point tieing your self to a relationshiop soo early, that you are not even enjoying. Your still young you might as well get out there, find someone who will treat you right. Theres no point being with some one who your not even sure you like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2010): I dont understand how he is your boyfriend if you have never been on a date and you are going around with other boys?
How should a boyfriend act? If you want somebody to tell you that you're pretty all the time go talk to your mum. Dont expect it from men or in your case boys.
Why should he have to change for you? If you dont like him, go find someone else. Stop wasting his time and your own.
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