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writes: I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend. We were a couple for 15 months before and it ended badly and we didn't see or speak to each other for 8 months. We are now together again for 11 months now. The way he told me he was sorry about everything was very special and very nice. Something that I will always remeber. But I still struggle to trust him and are scared that he will leave me although he has told me mutiple times he won't. We tell each other that we love each other but I do it far more tha he does and he told me he is not a person who says it a lot. He will say it when there is a special time. He shows it to me but lately he gets irritated with me so quickly and then he talks to me like om just another person and I don't even feel like his girlfriend then. He is on a very strict diet at this moment bacause he is a bodybuilder and that works a lot with his moods. I love him so much and I just want to keep him happy and not loose him. Any help please? Reply to this Question
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Your either going to have to learn to trust him or let go! Your afraid of him leaving you and you are getting clingy, which is probably why hes getting irritated, if you keep doing this your going to chase him away! I know your scared he will leave you but in order for a relationship to work you need love, trust, honesty and loyalty! So you need to choose whether to learn to trust him or let him go! Good luck!
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