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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2006): I am completly with you alot of things i dont feel confident with and usually feel abit stupid i get out of it by changing what were doing and doing something i am comfortable with
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reader, missbunbury  +, writes (15 March 2006):
 I agree with Irish - I'm not going to give you technical tips without knowing more about your situation. I can reassure you a little though. The other aunts are right that you should read up on the subject; there are lots of books that will explain the physical side of things. When you first start having sex though, you're bound to be a bit clueless about the majority of stuff, and it's learning the finer details that is half the fun! If you find someone who you can really connect with - as friends, not just as lovers - you won't need to be embarrassed at all, in fact, chances are you will be able to help each other out. Also, in terms of learning what is sexually pleasurable for you, there's no harm in a bit of solo experimentation - once you know what you enjoy on your own, you'll probably feel more confident about things.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (15 March 2006):
 I would have assumed, depending on how old you are, that you would have
(a) had the birds and the bees discussion with your mother/father/sister etc
(b) sex education at school.
If not, perhaps you need to go down to your local library and do some research.
From the sounds of it, you may be a little young to worrying about this sort of thing anyway because when you are older and meet someone really special and the time is right, it will come very naturally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2006): Not sure how old you are so I will not give this type of advice to anyone that could possibly be an underaged person. It may be best for you to research this 'subject' on your own. The local libraries provide an abundance of good material on this subject. Go check it out. It might be a good idea to approach trusted family and friends and get their opinions and thoughts as well. Good luck.
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