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writes:Hi everyone i really need you aunty aunt your opinions please give me some advice im in a long distance right now we love each other despite of the absence, we have ups and down but still i always open up to him and talk about it to work it out because i know hes so weak about the ldr situation he said hes so frustrated about us. he just told he cant go and visit here because of his upcoming projects at work. then i might graduating nextyear.so which is ok for me to go here on my graduation but its hard not seeing him for 1 year and half. but its ok cause i understand our situation. after he said that, i realize that. maybe im not his priority. but im analyzing things not to think that. so maybe we just need to be patience to be with each other and make plans about how to closed the distanced.. so already told him what we gonna do and say positive things about so he wont be upset and confused about us. after our discussion few days later. we just had a conversation and he just talked to his friend who lives another city in melbourne. he said that his friend wants to go back to their home place in sydney. so he wants to go fly to melbourne to fetch his friend and drive him go back. i was so jelous, cause i thought he didnt have the time to go anywhere because of his work. now he has a time to fly and fetch his friend to another city.. i dont know what will i feel. or maybe im wrong this way not to over thinking it. i know i dont have the right to stop him. cause were not married. but i just felt taking for granted or not important. he just give more time to his friend spend time than to me.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (24 July 2012):
 You need to talk to him about how you are feeling? Long distance can be very hard, and most relationships do not last this way as both parties are just not strong enough and they give up. You need to call him and tell him how you are feeling. Tell him you feel like he is not making an effort, just be honest with him.
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