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writes:im very confused because i want to be with my girlfriend and i have been with her 8 months now but things just aint working because we dont have much trust but im not sure i can make this relationship work or even if im ready for a relationship..... any advice to help me out ... ill apreciate it thank you ...? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2008): Fairy Godmother is right. If there is no trust in a relationship it's not going to turn out to be a great relationship! It's one of the most important things, apart from your actual feelings for the person. If you are questioning those 2 things you do need to really think about it.
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reader, ask sweeney :) +, writes (11 August 2008):
ask sweeney :) is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you for your advice :) i really am confused :( but your right i do need to look in my heart for what i realy want
thank you for you opinion on things and your advice
i really apreciate it
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reader, Fairy Godmother +, writes (11 August 2008):
 You sound terribly confused - poor you! My advice would be to take a deep breath, stand back a bit and think about what you really want.
Mutual trust is the foundation of any relationship. No trust = no relationship.
Why is there not much trust? Have either of you done or said anything to break the trust?
Search your heart for what you want and when you find the answer, go for it. If you decide you want this relationship, you need to talk the trust issue over with your girlfriend. If you decide you don't want this relationship, please let her down gently and kindly.
Good luck!
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