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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me the day after christmas saying that he wanted to be alone... but that weekend we spent the entire weekend together, and new years together... I had gotten him a really big expensive gift that he loved, and he got me something amazing as well. I'm so in love with him, and I thought he felt the same way too.We started dating in February of '07 and we broke up in june and got back together in september. It's almost been two weeks and he's already moved on. He says he doesn't like her but It's obvious. They have spent the past 6 days together. I'm going to go to a Physologist because I'm so torn up. I've gone into deep depression. I don't know what to do, I've asked many people for help but everyone keeps telling me to get over him. I don't want to get over him, I want him back. Help me get him back. It's my fault we aren't talking because I didn't give him space when he asked for it, so it's pretty much my fault he's with her. If I had given him space a week ago, when he asked.. We would have hung out this past weekend and maybe we could have talked things out, but I dont know.I really don't know what to do. I'm deeply in love with him.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 January 2008):
 Write him an apology letter or email or text and say that you are sorry and that it was your fault and asked for his forgiveness.Then wait till he responds or come back to you.When his anger subsides and rational again , he may reconsider and go back to you.
Give him time to reply and just carry on your life like normal.You need to show him that you are strong and don't crawl back and beg him because he will treat you with more disdain.
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