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writes:We broke up with my boyfriend for 8months bt he kept calling me until i gave up en agreed for meeting , we broke up because he cheated on me bt i still love him very much my problem is now i cant trust him again now im confused wht should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): In my opinion, people who cheat don't deserve a second chance, and will probably do it again. It's going to be really hard to get that trust back, if you get it back at all. Don't you think you should just leave him for good, and find a better man?
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reader, Nouvelle32  +, writes (28 November 2010):
You won't be able to trust him again. If you want a relationship with no trust, then go for it. My advice is to find someone else who won't disrespect you like that. Healthy relationships are built on trust and when a person betrays your trust you have nothing. It's an 8 month relationship and at this point you should still be in the honeymoon phase where you can't get enough of each other, so if he would do that so soon, what would he do after the newness of this relationship wears off... my guess is screw LOTS of women behind your back. So cut your losses and move on. A person who cheats has SERIOUS commitment issues and probably a slew of additional issues that you have no idea about since you hardly know this guy... and trust me 8 months is not long enough to really know someone. He has already proved to you what kind of character he has by going behind your back... remember ACTIONS speak louder than words. I've been in your situation before with my first love... only it was after 2 years of dating. Ten years later, he was still begging me back, but I politely declined because like I said, once the trust is gone, you have nothing... I don't want to spend my life wondering every time the a-hole went out of the house if he would cheat or not... not to mention bringing me a nasty little present like an STD!!! Have more respect for yourself and cut this guy off ASAP and go get tested.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (28 November 2010):
 8 months of going out with you and he cheated. How can you ever trust him again? It's entirely up to you. Do you want to give him another chance? Watch his every move if you do.
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