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writes: Dear cupid, I have a problem in school, well, a love problem. I love this girl to bits in school but she is going out with someone. He is a really horrible and I hate him. But what the problem is, is that I can't stop looking and thinking about her. Could you give me some advice? from krimzon viper Reply to this Question
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reader, Viper  +, writes (11 November 2005):
 Hi fellow Viper : ) I've been in your situation once before, the most beautiful and attractive girl is in the hands of your enemy.Well, you have to take into consideration that she may love him even though he might be horrible, you also have to take into consideration that if you like her you should build up a relationship with her from scratch and buff it up so your good friends, when the time comes, if it does, then you'll be the first in line that she may approve of to go out with her.The wait is intolerable I know I've been there : ), but if you stay strong and keep your eyes from wandering to her and keep your conversations short and interesting to her, the wait should'nt be to long as to compared with you just openly expressin your feelings.Hope I've Helped : )Viper
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reader, lillaum +, writes (10 November 2005):
 Hi there
Well love and school is a tough combination. If this girl is in a relationship, then she would probably not thank you for making your feelings known to her just yet. Don't try to brake them up because she wont respect that. All you can do is be there as a friend. If the boy she is with is truely horrible then soon enough she will see it for herself. If and when their relationship does end then maybe you could tell her how you feel then.
Good luck
Lillaum
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reader, becki +, writes (10 November 2005):
i think that you should try talking to her about how you feel and see what happens from there, if you know her tell her how you feel about the boy she is with and tell her she can do better
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (10 November 2005):
 Does she know how you feel? Does she have feelings for you? You need to ask yourself those two questions, before you go failing all of your classes because of your misplaced attention. You don't want to get too involved with the fantasy of her before you even know if there would be a chance of really having her if she was not already taken. You can't change the fact that she is in a relationship, no matter how you feel about the guy. If she is happy with him, the best thing you can do is sit back and wait your turn or focus on a girl with out a boyfriend.
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