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mackadocous
writes:Well i'm back again. My mind keeps thinking about the situation before with my fiance and my godsister. I don't quite know how to deal with it because one day i am fine and the next day i'm mad and zapping out. It also ran across my mind to get even with my godsister but what will that solve....nothing. My fiance has been in the house ever since i found out. It's like he is trying to make sure that i know that he not going anywhere. But all i keep thinking about is how blinded i was and still am cause i really haven't came to grips that HE would do something like that. To me he is still my angel but on the other hand he did betray me. My godsister doen't understand that we need time to ourselves right now and i am being blunt about it. What should i do about the way i'm feeling? Should i always tell him what i'm feeling? Or will that discourage him from trying to keep our relationship going? Should i control my emotions toward my godsister (cause i zapp out every now and then)?
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (26 February 2008):
 You have every right to be angry and they should be intelligent enough to know that it will take you time to get over what happened.
They should both be trying really hard to get back into your good books!
Are they both trying? If she is, calm down a bit but tell her you'll see her when you are ready.
As for your partner, talk openly with him and make sure he understands you are having a hard time of dealing with what he's done. Try not to fight, though.
My concirn would be that if the two of you get married and you remain close to your godsister, you will never get over what happened! I think you need to loose one of them.
But that's just my opinion!
God bless and good luck!
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