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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I can't see myself being someone's girlfriend, even when I'm in a relationship. I'm confident about my looks, the problem is something internally makes me feel "it's not me to be in a relationship." I very much like the idea of relationships though. On my own I feel sexy, confident, but when a guy is involved I can't see myself fulfilling those roles. A switch goes off that says, "You're not like this. You're just a silly young girl." It might be because of my religious upbringing: no guys and girls interacting, and family influence: making a big deal and acting immature about relationships.Has anyone experienced something like this? What helped you overcome it? I hope my question makes sense haha!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (2 November 2011):
 It may just be simply that you are not ready to be in a committed relationship and if that is the case really there is no harm in that at all. If you are happy with your life as it is well then don't rush in to trying to commit to someone. It is possible you are just not wanting that. Some people spend there entire life wanting to be single and independent. We are all build differently. Just live your life as happy as you can and maybe some day the right guy might come along and sweep you off your feet.
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