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writes: This may seem a little odd but when I have a really good time it often goes as a kind of blur and it's no longer memorable after a while. This happened when I lost my virginity (he asked me how it was a few days later and when i said i don't really remember we ended up having a huge argument over it) and now at the end of my best relationship ever I have it too. It really gets me down because I know that the last 4 months were amazing but however hard I try I just can't remember anything specific from this time. Not only do I not have him anymore but I don't even have the memories. Also, I haven't seen him in nearly 3 weeks which is the longest I've gone without seeing him since May, and I've forgotten the little things I loved about him without forgetting how much I loved him and It's really screwing with my head. I know this is a really wierd problem and I've tried to get it across the best I could-It's not actual memory loss as It only seems to be the really amazing things that I don't remember, everyday things I'm fine with. Is this a normal thing and can anyone suggest how I can overcome it, or atleast overcome it in this particular situation so that I can sort my head out over this guy.
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reader, frank8080 +, writes (13 November 2006):
 ok you are starting to sound a lot like me iv reasontly come back to my home town and iv been going for walks to places i havant been to for years and i cant remember eny of the good times i had down there with my old mates i just remember that it was a fun time and that it happend i dont need to know eny more than that i dont know if that helps but if it makes you feel eny better i some times forget that iv had my diner or tea half an hour after :-]
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