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I can't keep stringing them along, so who should I go for?

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Question - (9 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi,

i need help, basically there is two lads i like, they are both really sweet, caring, and seem like really decent lads,

one is 19 , really nice looking and really hot and he is really caring and knows how to show affection, hes at college and works aswell and seems to have a good laff

the other is 22, is also nice look and treats me like a princess has taken me out like 2 times so far and has been hurt by one of our mutual friends well it was his ex who i know,

i went to see the 19 year old last night and we cuddled and watched a film and ended up kissing and i felt so safe and warm and really enjoyed it

and i saw the other one friday and we also kissed and had a good night and really enjoyed it

but now the 19 year old has hardly spoken to me

and the other one seems really keen but i think im more keen on the other one and even tho i know the 22 year old would be the best match for me

i still am really attracted to the other one

so my question is i cant keep stringing them along and want to know who i should go for?

many thanks

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A female reader, wishfulxalways United States +, writes (9 February 2009):

wishfulxalways agony auntIt's hard to choose. It does sound like you're truly attracted to the 19 year old, but maybe you should evaluate each person in detail. Who can you picture yourself being with long-term? Maybe you should pick the one that you know won't leave you hanging. Defintely don't keep stringing them along! Guys hate that. I know that the one you pick will be the right one for you and I hope it works out. :) lots of luck to you in the future!

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