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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:This is unusual problem to have, but I've only had sex a few times because of this, and I hated it. I can't make eye contact with the other person. For some reason I have very piercing intimidating eyes, it actually feels like people get scared when they look me eye to eye. For this reason, I try to avoid eye contact.Now the problem I have, I can't have sex because of this. I just picture a scenario in my head where I have sex, the women's on top, and suddenly she starts screaming in terror when she makes eye contact, the same if I'm on top. I guess I think to myself, this person can read my mind by seeing through my eyes. I know they can't, but it feels like this. My eyes make people uncomfortable, I know this by their reactions, and I don't want to make people uncomfortable during sex so I don't bother with it anymore.Does anybody else have similar problem to this? Reply to this Question
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reader, lily13524 +, writes (17 August 2009):
 first,sometimes persons deal with the same thing you are going through,so don`t get to worried.If you are afraid of making eye contact when you are having sex,well you should try a next sex position in which you don`t really have to stare into the other person eyes.example doggy style.you and your sex partner don`t have to keep doing missionary every time because this position,you are more open to get eye contact.
~hope this helps and if it did please rate~
xoxo melly xoxo
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