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writes:My LDR girlfriend and I have been broken up for about 6 weeks now, about a week after we broke up she was already involved in another relationship with someone else. She told me this about 2 weeks after we broke up. It hurt like hell, all I could really do was sit there and listen to it and tell her that I'm happy for her and wish her the best. I still do really care about her and honestly want her to be happy, unfortunately I can't seem to be happy for myself. I've done everything I could possibly think of to try and get her out of my mind and be happy, but it's just not working and I'm starting to lose hope that i'll ever be happy again. This internal conflict, between my feelings for her and me being happy, that's happening is slowly tearing my soul and my heart to pieces. I remember there were days when I woke up next to her and the light just hit her face so perfectly that I would thank god for bringing her into my life and made me realize how lucky I was. And there were times when her head would be laying on my chest late at night and I would just think that I could do this forever, and hoped that we would stay together forever. It hurts like hell knowing that an angel has left you to be with somebody else, and makes me think that maybe there was something wrong with me.She meant the world to me and to have her turn her back on me and pretty much spit in my face and our relationship hurts more then I can bare. I know that we weren't perfect in our relationship but at one point in time I knew that we both loved each other. Almost every minute of every day I just seem to be thinking about her and I don't see it stopping anytime soon. I need help and I need to believe that there is hope sooner or later. Because I just can't go on without her and I'm losing hope in myself and everything else in the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe was thinking that we were on different paths in life, I was younger then her and she didn't like that. I was confused about this because if she minded then why did we date for almost a year. This never bothered me and I would've loved her until the end of time. And she also met a guy while she was involved with me. In the end I guess she didn't love me as strong as I loved her and that hurts so much when I think about it.
I really wish I did have that kind of friendship but unfortunately none of my friends are currently living near me, so I've had to do this pretty much alone. I do however realize that my parents still love me and that gives me a small glimmer of hope.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): I'm puzzled? It seems it was a good relationship? Why did it terminate?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): Aww Sweetie, you just made me cry..TEARS..Know that you're not alone, as I too am contending a heart-wrenching matter of the heart such as you, although not exact..and..the only thing that's keeping me from falling completely apart is the love, understanding and support of a very dear friend who is enduring a matter of the heart of similar to yours and mine. Perhaps a friendship of this type would prove constructive for you too.
I understand firsthand the pain...your pain.
Do me a favor...everytime you think of her ((which of course si nonstop)), remind yourself of this treuth, "Sure she succeeded at taking my heart away from me..BUT..more than that is this fact: She didn't succeed and will never succeed at taking my love for her away from me." ~Just because you are no longer with her, doesn't mean you have to stop loving her..FACT..and this reality will make you smile~
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