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*huicy
writes:how do i tell my boyfriend i am afraid to have sex because:1. i am afraid of getting pregnant 2. im still a virgin. we have been together for almost a year and i trust him. he means the world to me. also i did get to meet his brother and he was cool. should i not but to much into the fact that i havent meet any of his other family members.
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reader, mcrrox13318 +, writes (31 October 2010):
most girls are actually really scared to get pregnant after there first time, so thats actually kind of normal,bot saying that you shouldnt worry about it.
and if your still a virgin and you tell your bf your not really then he should understand. youve been together for a year so its not like hes trying to use you or pressure you into sex. Talk to him, and if he cares about you then he will understand you and if he tries to pressure you into anything then hes not really worth it if hes not going to care about your feelings.
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reader, sammi star  +, writes (28 October 2010):
 If you're not ready then be completely honest with your bf. There's no point putting it off or, even worse, going along with it just to please him because you'll only end up resenting him. If he loves you and cares for you then he will want to wait until you're completely comfortable. As for being afraid of getting pregnant, it's good that you're so cautious, there is no method that is 100% effective but always using a condom alongside another form of contraception makes it extremely unlikely to fall pregnant.
If your bf is close to his family and spends a lot of time with them then I would question why he hasn't introduced you to them. I would subtly drop it into conversation and if he's still reluctant then you have to ask yourself why.
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