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36-40,
*rown_baldie
writes:I am an asian man, who is completely bald, and living in the midwest. And by bald, i mean i've almost lost all hair on my scalp and now, losing my eyebrows too. I'm professionally successful, relatively healthy, average built, 6 feet tall, 170lbs man.. but I just can't find any woman who would be interested in even going on a first date with me.. In the last 4 years, I've not met a single girl who showed a glimmer of hope, even in online dating world (match.com, eharmony, okcupid, everything)I'm demoralized, tired and sick of finding someone worthwhile. I've started to look for some other purposes of life, rather than settling in a family. Please help recommend me where to find happiness, and also be sexually satisfied in life. Reply to this Question
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reader, wiseoldman  +, writes (17 October 2011):
At 30, I was 5'7", under 130 pounds and partially bald. I still had a good relationship with women because I forced myself to be pleasantly outgoing even when I felt shy. Then I shaved my head completely and things got a lot better. So don't blame baldness- physically you're a more imposing specimen than I was at your age. There's a website run by a fellow called David D'Angelo called 'Double your Dating. Google it and start living.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 October 2011):
 Your hair doesn't matter. You need to shave your head though. Women do not find a "moon" to be sexy. However, losing hair is a natural process, so we accept it. You can be stylish while bald, but you must shave off the remaining parts of the hair you have left, thats when it looks good.
For your eyebrows, you can see a make-up artist to draw on eyebrows if it bothers you, or get eye brow tattoos, natural looking. It's not unheard of these days. However men are luckier than women in this field, women do not put as much pressure on men's appearance as we put on women's appearance.
I don't know what you are doing or not doing to get a date, and why it doesn't work for you. But if what you've done so far doesn't work then you need to change the approach and try something new, that's the best thing you can do.
Start to feel GREAT about yourself though. Work out, get in shape, be healthy, dress smart, look after yourself, and be nice to yourself. Not having a date does NOT mean you are unwanted or unattractive. It just means those women weren't the ones for you. Rejection is normal for everyone! Do not let it demoralize you.
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