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writes:I entered into an entirely sexual relationship with my ex-boyfriend. He has a "fiance" if only in name. I know it was stupid, but i REALLY have become attached to him. I think i may be in love with him again. I know that this has to end soon and that it was probably just sex for him. I don't know how to end it, or if i even want to. I need help deciding what is the right thing to do here, and how do i do it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): Glad you found a solution.
Hope you have learned from the experience and will be careful before sleeping with someone again, particularly someone engaged to someone else. How would you feel if it was the other way round
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk, I was able to do it. I was a bit disappointed in the end, it was like he didn't care at all that i wanted to end it. I guess it really always is just about sex for the guy. I just need to move on now, and hopefully find someone better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): You say he has a fiance in name only. That's what he's telling you anyway. It is like 'my wife doesn't understand me' its a classic story - it makes you think his current relationship is dead in the water. Basically he is using you. If you want more out of this I'd make it clear you want a relationship which would mean him being free. So spare yourself further heartache. And don't settle for second best.
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reader, happy140 +, writes (2 December 2010):
 I think if you look at it morally you would stop. What if your boyfriend had an ex? In addition, he was still close to her, how would you feel after knowing what you did (maybe she the same way?). Being a man and knowing how I was when I was younger-it’s just Friggin sex…period. Stop being the female who needs emotions to have sex and realize men do not. We will have sex just for sex. You made it into a one sided relationship. Sex will not get him back, he had that sex before you two split and he still left. Does not mean the sex was not GREAT but something in the relationship was missing, so he left. Unless you are willing to have sex just for sex try and let him go. It will not work out for the best. You will at least have in the back of your mind he cheated to return to me maybe he‘d cheat again! Not all men are dumb enough to do it twice but most are.
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