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I came in my pants and I am so embarrassed

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Question - (20 November 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *lanky writes:

Im 17 and i really like this girl, but she really turns me on, i was cuddling her on the sofa with her and was really horney but after 15 mins or so i cum, we were fully dressed but it was so embarrassing, any advice to stop it happening?

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A female reader, pgissyd United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2007):

pgissyd agony auntI had a certin boyfriend back in college, it was his 18th birthday and we were both still virgins. As a birthday treat I decided to give him a handjob.

Trouble was, he was still dressed, Id only just put my hand in his pants and he came, all over my hand! I was sooooo thrilled!!! I felt that he must be so turned on by me he couldnt control himself. It was a fantastic confidence boost that I shall never forget and shall be eternally grateful for.

Dont worry about it hun, its really the best compliment a girl can get. nd you will learn to control it. If premeture ejaculation does become a bit of a prob for you in the future, try turning your mind to something totally mundane right before you cliax. Alot of guys say picturing their mother works, but it doesnt work for everyone.

Take care babe, and dont get too embarrased, it happens xxxxxxx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2007):

She might not have even noticed. Did she say or do anything about it?

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A male reader, SamuraiRick United States +, writes (20 November 2007):

SamuraiRick agony auntI wouldn't worry about it. It had to be embarrassing but it was a moment you both will never forget. Hopefully you and her will be an item, and you would look back on this and laugh it off. An embarrassing, but private joke between you two.

Were you just kissing? How intense was this?

I've never had that happen to me but I've had close calls when I've had strippers grinding on me. If your girl was dry-humping you that can happen. Ease off the grinding if you have a hard time controlling your explosions. You are still young and control isn't perfected now. With more experience that kind of thing won't happen as much.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2007):

ya just gotta grow out of it dude, if she loves you she won't care about the problem ya have. heck she should take it as a compliment!

Lots of teens have premature ejaculation (cumming too soon), you'll grow out of it in time

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