A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Okay, so how do I keep myself calm? I accidently found email correspondence between my boyfriend of four years and his best friend discussing the best jeweler from which to buy an engagement ring (for me) They discussed size, shape, cost, and whether or not I would like it. That was from week of January 9th. It is now getting close to Valentine's Day. And his friend asked him when are you going to buy it and my boyfriend said "very soon." What does very soon mean? And what if he buys it but doesn't do anything with it? One week? Six months? A year? He isn't acting weird or anything and I can't tell what he's thinking. And actually I am stressing myself out over it. I guess I shouldn't have read the email...maybe curiosity does kill the cat. What if he was just looking and thinking but doesn't plan to do it for a long time? Every time he bends down to tie his shoe or pick up a piece of paper my heart starts racing but...nothing has happened. I wish I could find a receipt or something to calm my nervousness but...if any one has any suggestions on how to remain calm they would be much appreciated. Can't even sleep properly at night and all I do now is listen to Shania Twain.
View related questions:
best friend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2015): here you go:
He might bail out on buying it last minute realizing he does not want to commit yet .
He might not have enough money to buy the one he wants .
His friend might of talked him out of it telling him he is too young to get married and it is too early .
he might of set it up allowing you to go through the emails just to have a joke .
Heck he might go to the shop to buy it and the shop assistant might start flirting with him.
try these thoughts and then you will not be over excited about it ... and completely ruin the surprise for him
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2015): You accidentally found an email? Do you go through his emails without him knowing often?
That's actually really sad, that he is going to all this effort to surpirse you and you're nosing through his emails and ruin it.
I never look at my husbands emails/texts/Facebook...anything. Trust. It's crucial. Now you want to find the receipt - chill out, stop going through his stuff and be grateful you have a nice guy. If and when he decides to propose is up to him, you have to do your absolute best to forget what you've seen and allow him to surprise you - like he wanted to do!
...............................
|
