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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok well....I was goin out with my boyfriend for 5 years, I broke up wih him about 2months ago to go out with a guy who I have known for 7 years who i have always been very good friends with and dated for a few months in school. My ex doesnt know dat im with this guy and would go mad if he knew, he keeps ringing and txin me askin for another chance, i have clearly given him enough chances but he never took me serious just took for granted i wud always be there. he never seemed interested in my life or what i wanted to do..just what he liked, he always worked and when he wasnt workin he was wit his friends and expected me to tag along.he thought i was a doll and would just sit there and look good... The difference is the other guy is really interested in me and my life...over the past week me and my ex were gettin along ok as friends so the lastnight i seen him out in a club and was talking to him after WAY to many drinks next thing i no were at my house and ended up having sex (which i completely regret and feel so guilty)I really dont want to get back with him as ive been in that relationship for far too long too young...and the guy im with is great...but now my ex thinks oh great we are a couple again... what do i do now???
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reader, brunettechick +, writes (27 November 2007):
 Well, it sounds to me as if your better of with this new guy.....and your ex is only with you to call you his 'girlfriend'. you really shouldnt have slept with him though. everyone makes mistakes but you should really explain to your ex boyfriend that you regret what you did and if he still keeps texting you then change your number.
hope that helps
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