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anonymous
writes:I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years 2 and a half months ago. Two weeks later I met a new man and I stayed with him for 6 weeks then left him two weeks ago. I left him as I since I felt that he was not entirely committed to the relationship and sent him an email to that effect and have not seen him since. I have since realized that I have acted on the rebound and that I ufortunately ended something with a very lovely man. I need to stay single for the moment to "lose" the baggage from my previous relationship but would like to eventually see this man again. I don't quite know whether he will want to see me again (I was awful). What to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): Dumping someone by email is very weak and not very fair but I think he is better off without you. As for your ex, if he is with someone new then move on and leave him to get on with his life. If he is still single you just need to ask him how he feels. It may not be the answer you want and if it is not you need to respect his decision. Also the relatio ship must have failed for a reason so you have to sort that out before you get back in to it if he is prepared to get back with you.
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reader, Helen Help! :)  +, writes (3 June 2007):
 Hi ya I think what i would do is send him a text or email apologising for how ide behaved and then just say that youd really like to say sorry in person and would love to see him again ask if hed maybe like to meet up for JUST a drink see how that goes first. good luck :)
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