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writes:me and my ex have been broke nup for about 2 months. we have a always been very close and very very good friends for the past 4 years weve dated before if you could call a 1 day thing a relationship. the last one ended after a week with her telling she loved me in a text and saying she knew it was serious but dumping me the next day. we had texted almost every day but after a month i told her i didnt think i could be friends anymore if she didnt feel as i felt about her. she said ok im fine with that and its been 3 weeks since weve spoken. i want to talk to her again but im afraid to, will she think im annoying? im not sure if we should even be friends or if shes a good friend
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits school now and whenever i see her in the hall she locks eyes with me but hasnt said anything. i know it sounds stupid but it seems i start the conversation more in the past so i want her to start tslking to me first. is that wrong? should i just talk to her
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2009): I don't think she'll be annoyed, she'll most likely be happy she has a friend back, but, it's not fair on either of you to keep changing your mind about being friends with her. If you want more and can't accept that you'll only be friends and can't push your feelings aside, then you shouldn't be friends, purely because you'll be hurting yourself by lying to her and to yourself, when you say you'll be okay being 'just friends', when really you're not.
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