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writes:Can any 1 please help me. i cant stop blushing when any cute guy looks at me or talks to me!!! Its a real problem how can i get rid of it..? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): Hi there, it is possible they might not notice and it can feel much worse than it is, because you can feel your cheeks going red and it seems awful. When it feels like everything is getting hot in the face, just focus on something like a flower in your mind and imagine the cold wind blowing your way. Once you have calmed down mentally the blushing will stop.
I remember going through a brief phase of this when I was around your age - it goes away. (Also try saying to yourself he is just my brother - he is like my brother and that will help!)
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 It really comes down to not getting too worked up when they talk to you but in the end you will most likely always be a blusher. It's not a bad thing and I'm sure guys will find it cute.
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reader, TheWholeTLJ  +, writes (7 June 2011):
I too suffer from blushing. I tend not to focus on it. When you draw less attention to the fact that you're blushing, less people will notice. Try not to get noticeably embarrassed about it. If he does notice, use it as an ice breaker ("Yeah, its a bit warm in here. Want to come outside?").
One more thing, some guys might find the blushing girl checking him out to be kinda cute.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): Hey (: i had the same problem! .. all you have to do is concentrate on your breathing! .. or say in your head "i dont fancy him" over and over always works for me when i talk to my crush lol Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2011): Blushing is a automatic response. you can get rid of this by improving your confidence in social situations. myself and any other hypnotherapist would be able to improve this within 4 hours by reprogramming your subconcious mind. See your local hypnotherapist. Should only cost £25-£40 and success is 80%
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (7 June 2011):
 Some people find that quality sweet in a person.
Blushing comes from embarrassment. Address what you are embarrassed about and work on your confidence!
Best WIshes.
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