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I been trying to make a baby but every time me and my boyfriend have sex the cum comes back out so can I still get pregnant and if so how long will it take?

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Question - (19 February 2008) 9 Answers - (Newest, 29 April 2008)
A female United States age 18-21, snow writes:

I been trying to make a baby but every time me and my boyfriend have sex the cum comes back out so can I still get pregnant and if so how long will it take?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 April 2008):

LOL! Welcome to sex and to the "wet spot". Yes sweety you can still get preggers even if most of those 3 billion sperm end up on the mattress. That's why there are 3 billion of them and it only takes one.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008):

I dont think its a case if not knowing how to make a baby. Im about the same age as you. Me and My husband are ttc and I have been told some of the cum will go for the egg (where you want it to be) and some just fall our because itr has no where else to go.

Spaeking from experance i had a baby when i was 18. being a young mum is the hardest thing in the world. you have to give up so much. a soical life gone! wait till you are older or married then you can enjoy your young life and then enjoy the family life.

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A male reader, q1605 United States +, writes (19 February 2008):

q1605 agony aunt Dr. Pete you should be ashamed of yourself for telling that woman to stand on her head for a whole hour after sex. it's been scientifically proven 30 minutes is ample time to conceive a child. And also outside of those 9 fertile days mentioned in that other post. The way to tell if the uterus has closed is if you get the answering cervix

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (19 February 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntEach time he ejects into you it is about 500 to 600 million sperms and you only need 1 sperm to fertilize your egg.

Don't worry about those cum that flows out.

You can do a pregnancy test 1 week after you miss your next period.

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A male reader, Dr Pete United Kingdom + , writes (19 February 2008):

Dr Pete agony auntDid they never teach you how you make a baby? You need to stand on your head for an hour each time after sex. No cheating.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008):

What is your true age? Some sperm always comes out, but others swim to the spot and a baby is made. A simple version because you sound too young to understand the full explanation.

take care

xx

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (19 February 2008):

Annalisa agony auntThey say it's a good idea to put your legs up in the air after sex. Maybe that's how I got pregnant... No, wait, it's just my husband can't come within reach without me conceiving!

Seriously, though, it's normal. If you look up the Billings Method, it'll show you how you can tell when you are ovulating. When ovulation occurs, you are fertile for about 9 days out of your cycle. During this time, the cervix is open and sperm can enter your huterus, then swim up to the egg. The rest of the time, your cervix is safely sealed and there's no way the sperm will get in.

However, life is a miracle. Even if you do get pregnant, only 1 pregnancy in 4 is ever successful!

From the age point of view, it would be nice to have experienced enough of life for you to be able to impart the knowledge onto your children.

God bless you and good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008):

The very fact that you are asking such questions proves your not ready to have a baby! You are far too young and all it takes is one microscopic sperm to make a baby. Go and read some pregnancy books! You can get pregnant the first time or the hundreth time there are no set time limits. Please for your own sake talk to a responsible adult because you won't know what's hit you when the baby's born.

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A female reader, daisyb212 United Kingdom +, writes (19 February 2008):

daisyb212 agony auntwell im sorry this is going to sound harsh but untill you know how a baby is conceived its prob not a good idea to have one! you sound a bit young

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