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writes:I am still in love with my ex and we are still friends but definitely not as close as we used to be when we were together we talk every once in a while he calls and we have hung out a couple of times and he has told me before that he still has feelings for me but he was drunk when he said that and then after that he went back to being a little distant and i don't call him i wait for him to call me and act like i don't really care and i act like im good with just being friends but the truth is i still love him and i don't know how to tell him how i feel without pushing him further away or without messing up what friendship we do have left and now he is moving out of state and he says he wants to keep in touch but i want him to know how i feel before its to late so how do i do that and win him back or is there even a chance of doing that
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2009): This is thoroughly confused again more to my question and in regards to the answer we did have a big problem that made my ex be distant and that was that i was listening to very bad advice from a very insecure friend of mine and i started being very insecure which is not how i usually am well now i dont talk to that friend anymore and my ex says that he can tell that im back to being the girl that he first met that he fell for secure and happy and he tells me that if he were ready and in the right place for a serious relationship i would be the perfect girlfriend and we have fun together when we do hang out so my question is does he still have those feelings for me and is he just keeping some distance because he is not ready for a relationship and because he is moving and doesnt want to get too attached again or does he just not care and how do i tell him that i still have those feelings for him without making him more distant before its too late or should i even try to tell him at all. I do have a feeling that he still has those feelings for me but i dont know and I dont know if or how to tell him i still have those feelings for him.
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reader, playlislay  +, writes (5 April 2009):
I sort of agree with pvtguy. But my problem is, if you two were so in love then why did you break up in the first place?
Who split up with who?
I feel that if you two were so in love before, and one of you walked away, then are you or him really worth fighting for?
Its your choice and love is a great feeling. Always go with your gut but keep a clear head.
Good luck x
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