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writes: hi i am a 15 year old boy i dont know if im bisexual or gay because i find boys attractive but not girls if i see girls its like i get quite nervous and boys aswell but i dont feel attracted to girls as i do with boys so i would like to know if i am gay or bisexual Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): You are may be gay or bi though. I didn't realize I sometimes liked the same sex until I was 18. Just go with what you feel and eventually it will become clear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2011): Wooooooooooow hold your horses! Your only 15. You are going to change SO much in the next few years of your life, there's no point putting yourself into a box yet, because chances are it's only going to change. At one point, I was pretty convinced I had a crush on my best friend, and therefore may be a lesbian. It turns out I'm straight and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now! On the other hand, I had a friend who was in a relationship for 5 years, and then they broke up and she's now seeing a woman. Don't be so eager to find a label for yourself. Just go with whatever you feel happy doing, and readress the question in a couple of years. Listen to yourself (because your the only person whose going to know the answer to this one) and with time It'l be clearer. But no pressure, your not in any rush :)
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reader, xTheAlmightyDuckx  +, writes (23 October 2011):
 Hey, well like you i am 14 and i am qeustioning my sexuality aswell, it is a diffucult time being a teenager as alot of changes to do with hormoans and puberty can cause you to become sexually confused. Like the first aunt said your young and really this could just be a phase, i wouldn't think to much about it and just try and do what comes natrually to you. If in a couple of years you find your still attracted to guys then this would mean that your either bisexual or gay but it isn't anything to be ashamed of.
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