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writes:Recently I just saw my sister's boyfriend for the first time when my sis invite to our apartment that my sis and I shared, he was quite tall and handsome. One day, my sis was out working and i was at home in my room, her boyfriend came in the apartment(my sis gave him the extra keys), I came out and ask him to make himself at home and I went back to my room. He came into my room and ask me to come outside and sat with him on the sofa. He started touching me and gave me a kiss on the neck(in a minute I felt turn on), then he told he brought condoms and we started kissing each other then he pulled me to my room and we started having sex( It was my first time).He went home after my sis came back.After that day we started having sex everyday when my sis goes to work. I felt guilty everyday for having sex with her boyfriend and I dont know how to tell my sis that I'm in love with her boyfriend, please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2011): This man met you for the 1st time, then came back the next time WITH CONDOMS to have sex with you?
He is also having sex with your sister?
Does he work? Like a thief he comes into your sisters home and betrays her as well.
Becareful honey, being a cheater with a con man will get you nowhere. Not only is he using you, you are letting him to.
Have you head the saying: with a sister like u who needs an enemy??
I am assuming your sister is older than you. Is she taking care of you as well? Is this how you repay her?
Read all the cheating storied here on DC, can you feel the anguish people go through when they are faced with cheaters. This is what u have become.
You have deliberately hurt and betrayed your sister and this is unforgivable. You are destroying a lifetime bond with her, for what? SEX!!!
This man is not worth it. He is using booth of you and the sooner you both dump him, the better. The quicker you tell her what is happening the quicker your relationship will start to heal. The longer you betray her, the more you become like him.
Sorry there is no easy way to say this but Karma will come back to haunt you. Is this what u want?
You are not in love but in LUST. You gave him your virginity for nothing. Because it was not special to him.
Are you the only girl he is cheating with or does he have others that he cheats with.
You are a young girl, if you start betraying people you love, it will make you regret it later in life. Sometimes it is to late to salvage.
This guy is a con artist.
He is a user.
He 'abuses' your feelings
He is nothing but trouble.
You can continue to cheat or you can save your sister from more hurt and tell her what you are doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): I would dnot tell your sister!!! Do you want to lsoe her as well.
Just tell this creep to back off and leave him alone as well or threaten HIM you will tell your sister that should frighten him enough to stay away from you.
I would not recommend you telling your sister you could upset the whoelf amily
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): I have to be honest. This is never going to end well. I know it will be really hard, but you have to tell your sister.The longer you leave it the harder it will be for you and the worse it will be for her. After you have told her you might want to give her a bit of space because she is going to be pretty hurt, upset and possible angry not at just you or her bf, but probably both of you. Try and give her a bit of space and then, later on try and talk about it. Talking always helps!
I hope this helps, and good luck! x
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): This is hirrible this man is using you both! How long had she and him been going out when you shamefully allowed yourself to cheat on her with him. You should have refused his sleazy advances I doubt he even has any emotional feelings as you're just the bit on the side.
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