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51-59,
*herimarie
writes:When Im at my boyfriends house i usually stay there 5 days a week...he wants to do everything for me, he talks about the future with me in it, hes kind, generous, thoughtful, loving and calls me beautiful all the time. He's mentioned possibly moving in together. We always laugh so hard together, and he says when im not there he has a hard time sleeping. We have a great sex life and hes very passionate with me when we are together. Is this a man that has fallen in love with me? Or just another guy that likes to play headgames with women? We are both in our 40's and have not yet mentioned the word love to eachother yet, we have only been together for almost 5 months, and I have fallen so in love with him, but im still not sure if thats something i want to tell him yet.
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reader, Alwayswondering  +, writes (21 November 2010):
Hello there.I'm only 19, and I dated only one person in my life, and we broke up, but I will try my best to help. I notice at my age range, 19-22, people's minds are not in the relationship. What I mean is, yes they are aware of each other, but are they actually in love? Sure you may say it, but are you mature enough to understand each other completely. You two are in the upper age range where people are mature. You know your priorities, know who you are, and you have your life figured out. It seems to suggest that the concept of "love" is more defined at your age range. You're probably confused now. What I mean is that you guys are not a bunch of teenagers or "young adults" that say: "I love you" when you date for three weeks. You're not in the situation where one person has said: "I love you", and the other person may not be there yet, or may be pressured to say "I love you too" because A) Don't want to hurt that person's feelings or B)If you don't, you are afraid that s/he will leave you. Your situation is what I think "love" is, even though I don't know the scope beyond your post. How he feels, I do not know. He does not seem like the kind to play with the woman's head. He seems to be genuine. As to your question, may be it should be saved for a special time? I hypothesize (as I've never been there) that it will come to the point where you guys know that you love each other and will just say it when the moment is right. I hope I've helped you out. Let me know if I did.
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