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writes:I am in a new relationship, I've known this guy since high school and he's changed so much. When we were together in high school he was so touchy feely and always happy but now six years later he's gotten a whole lot quieter and distant and I don't know what to do. I asked him what the problum is and he says he just can't talk about it right now, he just cant... and I am not getting any signs of effection from at all. It's starting to get really depressing. What do I do? Someone please helllllllllllp!!!!!! Reply to this Question |
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reader, tattoo0fthesun +, writes (5 May 2009):
 For some reason most guys can't explain how they feel, even if they want to talk. Lets see... how long has he been different? If its only been a week or so I wouldn't worry about it. After that, tell him that six months proves that you're a loyal/trustworthy person. After that, everything weighs on his answer. I can't tell you whats a good answer or what isnt. Thats all up to you. All i can say that if he still won't open up then tell him you two need a break. Distance might make you guys stronger or make you guys happier.
take care
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reader, crazykit666  +, writes (5 May 2009):
You need to talk to him. He obviously isn't aware of how much of an effect this is having on you. You need to tell him that this isn't going to work unless something changes. You can't beat this problem out of him but you need him to know that you can't be treated like this any longer.
Speak to him. A relationship without communication and affection is a miserable one!
Good luck! Let me know how you get on!
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