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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi guys. Just need some advice on this matter.Afew weeks ago a new woman started in my workplace. She came over and introduced herself to me. And I just fancied her the moment I saw her. Tall, long black hair. She was stunning. I wanted to ask her out, but decided to wait as I didn't want to come across as to upfront or pushy.We started to talk and got on well and after two weeks during a casual conversation I asked her out. T which she yes. I didn't take her number but I gave her mine and told her to call/text me when she wants to meet up outside of work.Now this is where I need some advice. Should I ask her for dinner/drink the next time I see her or should I just back off and wait to she if she says something to me of calls/texts me. The last thing I want is to sound desperate. Yet at the same time I don't want to give her the impression that I'm not interested anymorePlease help!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2011): You asked her out and she said yes! To me, that's a pretty big green light to move towards setting an actual date. I think she's unlikely to text you - many women are scared of seeming forward - so you will need to make the first move. A 'how about that drink sometime' should do it!Maybe start it off with something really casual - like just going for a drink after work somewhere close. If you guys get along really well in the course of the evening, you can always ask her if she's hungry and progress things to a casual meal somewhere low key. If things are still going great at the end of the night, tell her you'd love to see her again, and ask to take her somewhere a bit more upscale. Good luck!
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