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writes:I wont tell you how old I am but I have been having a problem... I have been wanting a child for the last I would say three years. I have been having major mommy issues. Every time I see a baby i get a pang in my heart and I get upset when the baby leaves. I have been holding my stomach. I know this sounds weird but this feeling wont go away. I dont have a boyfriend i havent had one for five years. Im so lost, please help me... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know all the changes my body will have and I welcome them... Adoption is a good answer but i want the feeling of a baby... I know that sounds uncaring but i know what you have to go through to adopt a baby... My aunt has done it twice now... I practically raised my first nephew before he died so i know how to take care of a child...
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reader, coughcough  +, writes (20 November 2010):
 You're not alone. Having a baby is wonderful experience. If you are financially capable of taking care of a baby on your own perhaps you should consider adoption? There are plenty of adorable babies who need someone to love and care for them. My aunt cannot have a baby physically nor does she have a boyfriend but she still fills the gap by helping friends and family who do have babies. There are plenty of options.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2010): you are possibly aged 18-21? And you are feeling unloved. So you think a baby will make your life meaningful? And give you something to love? And love you back?
First finish your education. Maybe volunteer at a centre for single parents and see how exhausted the mums are in there.
Pregnancy is not all sailing. Weeks of vomiting. Inability to eat some things.Your nipples can hurt. You have to rush to bathroom more often. You cannot eat some things. Later your navel pops out
Sometimes your skin down there rips open as the baby's head hurts so much when it eases out through your vagina.
Once born babies take oodles of time and effort on your part. Lots sleepless nights. There goes your chance to enjoy your late teens.
Babies are demanding. They have constant needs. They have tantrums. Sometimes they don't do as they are told.
Babies can need 10-12 nappy changes a dat. Oodles of washing to do every day. Babies get sick. You are out trying to get treatment for your babies and its 2am.
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